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sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (56) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (35) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (23) Oakland, California
isabella94
i********4
I’m looking for a dada a caregiver a lover a friend an someone to be understanding Let me just put this out there so u can get to know me a little bit I’m sexual just outside of little space which is were I feel comfortable I was sexually ***ed an ***ed by my dad 2 brothers an a uncle from 3 til I was 16 i age regress to a 2 year old an am 2 85% of the time because that was before the trauma began and it gives me comfort to act like I’m 2 so I don’t have to live in the world were that actually happened to me
Female (34) Oakland, California
norathere
n*******e
I'm just a tomboy who loves bondage, impact, being a pet, and exploring, but is also switchy with a mean sadistic streak! I'm nonbinary/trans, and I use she/they pronouns. Please ask me about it if you want to understand me more! I am lesbian/sapphic, but definitely take time to warm up - demisexual, a bit asexual at times. But always up for kinky times. If I'm honest, I'd love to find a partner (perhaps a submissive or dominant? 🤔) who loves bondage, impact, power dynamics, and sensation, as much as I do. And might occasionally like switching (though that could be something I get with another person!) Oh and, someone who matches my values - basically very leftist, community, mutual aid, liberation, end genocides 🍉 , land-back, uplift indigenous and Black folx, etc. ✊🏽
Female (39) Oakland, California
ogxoxo
o****o
goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with, do life with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves ✨ i would love to be the possessive hotwife of a subby hubby💕 ~currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity cuck milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes all in all very sexually fluid i have a demanding libido i am also into the idea of having two boyfriends...who are boyfriends ☺️
Female (40) Oakland, California
TravelGirl225xx
T*************x
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (39) Oakland, California
stuffedore0
s*********0
I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️
Female (20) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (29) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (35) Oakland, California
easy_peasy91
e**********1
Started a profile here as I’m looking for something specific after separating from my husband earlier this year. Not getting my hopes up ;) I like to play. I value humor, kindness, and intelligence. I’m very confident (and sensitive and empathetic) and it’s important to me that my lover is, too - that we can meet as equals and explore in that space. I’m a little switchy and love shifting power dynamics in sex. Think Babygirl but without the affair, lol I love caretaking, I love giving blowjobs, I love a man’s warm heavy hand on my throat. Would love to find a partner that’s interested in sharing STI status so we can play without condoms. The most important things to me are trust and safety. A little about me. I work in the film industry and moonlight at a tiki bar. I’m interested in labor reform, stoic philosophy, and comedy as a revolution. I believe in the power of goodness and the power of asking. I don’t drink much, will bum a cigarette or roll one once in a while, smoke more marijuana than is good for me (working on it), and generally value everything in balance. I work weekends, but on my days off you’ll catch me at the Roxie or BAMPFA, working on my creative endeavors, or hiking with my dog. Love a good day trip. Sometimes I’ll just drive around aimlessly listening to music. I like a lot of neo surf rock, grew up in the punk space, basically listen to everything now. Re: no profile photos. I’m not interested in posting/sharing photos, but happy to meet at a cafe before committing to anything. What do I look like? White lady, round youthful face, blue/green eyes, light brown wavy hair. Natural look, laid back style.
Female (34) Oakland, California
WETROSE97
W*******7
I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.
Female (28) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California

New members in Oakland

sunny67
sunny67
I am a family-oriented and trustworthy woman who embraces her feminine side with grace. At my core, I lead a simple life and cherish the little things; my greatest desire is to experience the profound connection that comes with mutual love. I truly believe in the magic of love and the warmth it brings to our lives.
Female (56) Oakland, California
SecretSmiles
SecretSmiles
:kissing_closed_eyes: :kissing_heart: 9_9 :hearts_around: :clapping: :coffee_happy: :relaxed: :) :D
Female (38) Oakland, California
wmaryrink
wmaryrink
I am a beautiful blonde with blue eyes, who wants to bathe in your bottomless beautiful and loving eyes! I am a kind girl with an open, tender heart and calm character. I know what I want to find here. I want to meet my love and my beloved half. My heart is free and open to a worthy man. For me, the main thing is self-development and, of course, love and family!
Female (35) Oakland, California
ogxoxo
o****o
goddess treatment is non negotiable ideally would like to find a special someone to match freaks with, do life with and motivate eachother to be the best versions of ourselves ✨ i would love to be the possessive hotwife of a subby hubby💕 ~currently into exploring some of the following~ femme dom pleasure dom chastity cuck milking pegging + more i can be switchy or bratty too sometimes all in all very sexually fluid i have a demanding libido i am also into the idea of having two boyfriends...who are boyfriends ☺️
Female (40) Oakland, California
WETROSE97
W*******7
I'm very laid back. Single woman. I'm horny very often and wanting a couple that would love to fuck on me and hang out semi often.
Female (28) Oakland, California
easy_peasy91
e**********1
Started a profile here as I’m looking for something specific after separating from my husband earlier this year. Not getting my hopes up ;) I like to play. I value humor, kindness, and intelligence. I’m very confident (and sensitive and empathetic) and it’s important to me that my lover is, too - that we can meet as equals and explore in that space. I’m a little switchy and love shifting power dynamics in sex. Think Babygirl but without the affair, lol I love caretaking, I love giving blowjobs, I love a man’s warm heavy hand on my throat. Would love to find a partner that’s interested in sharing STI status so we can play without condoms. The most important things to me are trust and safety. A little about me. I work in the film industry and moonlight at a tiki bar. I’m interested in labor reform, stoic philosophy, and comedy as a revolution. I believe in the power of goodness and the power of asking. I don’t drink much, will bum a cigarette or roll one once in a while, smoke more marijuana than is good for me (working on it), and generally value everything in balance. I work weekends, but on my days off you’ll catch me at the Roxie or BAMPFA, working on my creative endeavors, or hiking with my dog. Love a good day trip. Sometimes I’ll just drive around aimlessly listening to music. I like a lot of neo surf rock, grew up in the punk space, basically listen to everything now. Re: no profile photos. I’m not interested in posting/sharing photos, but happy to meet at a cafe before committing to anything. What do I look like? White lady, round youthful face, blue/green eyes, light brown wavy hair. Natural look, laid back style.
Female (34) Oakland, California
soriveting
s********g
**I value honesty, clarity, chemistry, communication, control, boundaries, and connection. Men who offer their power, and kneel with intention earn my respect.** Not here to perform. Look elsewhere for theatrics. Obedience is earned, not owed. Brats are welcome… if you’re clever. Defy me well, or don’t at all. Don’t test me twice. I value self-awareness over submission; silence over scrambling; plans over surprises; clarity over chaos. I provide care, not coddling. **If you message me, start with: *“Here’s how I value those I serve.”*** If you don’t know what that means, we’re not aligned.
Female (40) Oakland, California
norathere
n*******e
I'm just a tomboy who loves bondage, impact, being a pet, and exploring, but is also switchy with a mean sadistic streak! I'm nonbinary/trans, and I use she/they pronouns. Please ask me about it if you want to understand me more! I am lesbian/sapphic, but definitely take time to warm up - demisexual, a bit asexual at times. But always up for kinky times. If I'm honest, I'd love to find a partner (perhaps a submissive or dominant? 🤔) who loves bondage, impact, power dynamics, and sensation, as much as I do. And might occasionally like switching (though that could be something I get with another person!) Oh and, someone who matches my values - basically very leftist, community, mutual aid, liberation, end genocides 🍉 , land-back, uplift indigenous and Black folx, etc. ✊🏽
Female (39) Oakland, California
isabella94
i********4
I’m looking for a dada a caregiver a lover a friend an someone to be understanding Let me just put this out there so u can get to know me a little bit I’m sexual just outside of little space which is were I feel comfortable I was sexually ***ed an ***ed by my dad 2 brothers an a uncle from 3 til I was 16 i age regress to a 2 year old an am 2 85% of the time because that was before the trauma began and it gives me comfort to act like I’m 2 so I don’t have to live in the world were that actually happened to me
Female (34) Oakland, California
TravelGirl225xx
T*************x
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (39) Oakland, California
oakland127708
o***********8
I am on this site because I do not want to limit my search to only my city or even my country. Maybe it is a too romantic or philosophical point of view, but I consider myself a tender, sweet and calm woman. I am a very romantic person. So, if you are looking for a good friend, a faithful wife, and passionate lover, you have found such a woman. Welcome to my wonderful world and if you are very caring, sincere, and loving - you have all the chances to win my heart and be the luckiest man! What do you think?
Female (36) Oakland, California
LezBHonest
L********t
Single cis female. BBW. Independent and social. 420 XTC Friendly. Looking for a BBC or Ebony. Dreams of attending a Diddy party😜
Female (37) Oakland, California
sara_somnambulant
s***************t
I'm here to explore my interest in S/M mainly. I'm mostly new to kink and exploring so I guess I'll just paste my regular dating about me here for now! I’m a creative who loves sewing, designing, DIY anything, gardening, and dancing! Personal growth is super important to me, and I’m always up for a challenge. I’m all about deep chats, but I also love having stupid carefree fun. I take what matters seriously, but never myself too much.
Female (35) Oakland, California
malena918
m*******8
take me out to eat then eat me out 😛 looking for an emotional connection as well as sexual. ultimately am looking for a serious relationship w a lot of kinky fun in the bedroom switch, can give it or take it, but I have been playing a submissive role more as of late. I especially love fantasy and roleplay. corsets and courtesans, teacher/student, general societal gray situations excite me 🥴
Female (29) Oakland, California
NotYourGoodGirl_
N**************_
5'3" BBW Mixed: White, Mexican, Native * Open minded to all but focused on finding an experienced Dom or Brat Tamer. Getting back to the scene after taking a few years off. * Communication and consistency are very important to me. If you are the type of person to ghost, do not message me.
Female (33) Oakland, California
stuffedore0
s*********0
I’m just a sub in desperate need of a dom to worship but don’t let that fool you i also really like pegging men ☺️I can be a good girl and follow instructions but i can also be a very strict dom I’ll train to be perfect for my dom. I’m really into CNC so I don’t mind being used and ***d Note that) I want an actual Dom that I can communicate with and have an actual Dom&Sub relationship with not just a quick fuck and that’s all. (bit of an anal slut🎀) (I prefer monogamy) ️️️️IN PERSON ONLY! I DONT LIKE ONLINE PLAY!!!️️️
Female (20) Oakland, California
msfortune
m*******e
I’m new to the D/s world, but I’m learning quickly what draws me in. I’m a quiet, sweet Domme with a calm kind of control the type that doesn’t need to raise my voice to be felt. I’m discovering that I enjoy patience, subtle command, and the kind of dynamic where someone genuinely wants to please. I appreciate effort, devotion, and someone who listens with intention. I have a soft approach, but very clear boundaries. Respect is nonnegotiable with me. If you want my attention, you show consistency. If you want my trust, you earn it. I’m still exploring, still figuring out my style, but I know I prefer a dynamic built on communication, respect, and genuine willingness; to be clear I’m a Domme in every sense, including financial. I expect devotion in all forms emotional, mental, and financial. If you serve me, you serve fully.… xoxo
Female (23) Oakland, California

New personal ads in Oakland

XOcherbear48OX
Daddy applications being accepted.

Tell me why you would be my perfect daddy?
1 requirement is you must be close by
2 I can not host due to my daughter living with me

So convince me on why I should choose you!
BDSM Play Partner ● 31 to 50 years ● 40km around USA Angola
Rollingston-3630
Wedgie girl

Wedgie girl
Please tell me how you would have bullied me in class!

22 pretty petite, will send pics if role play is good

Just want to be bullied by getting my knickers pulled up by a nasty bully
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years UK Edinburgh
Heifer1611
Feedee / fat play

Looking for a play mate who enjoys feeding , fat belly , inflation along this lines

Play senario : getting the heifer up to standard , weight increase, breast expansion, breeding
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Solihull
feedme4444
Dream

I want to have my first 3 or four some with ppl who can have fun and hang out first and after
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Hamilton
add14couple
In Vegas for the weekend 1/30-2/1

Anyone want to meet? Married female looking for big dick. Staying off the strip.. let me know if interested!
NSA ● 25 to 55 years ● 85km around USA Las Vegas
HazyHazel
Breeding

I want someone who can get me pregnant, no strings attached. I'm quite picky, so please look at my criteria and preferences before messaging.

Criteria: In shape, intelligent, in good health
Preferences: light eyes (blue or green) OR of East Asian descent
NSA ● 18 to 30 years ● 80km around USA Heathcote
tris0605
Anyone free now?

Looking for someone to meet with now or later today.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Rockwall
curiousdom75
Gynarchy relationship

Looking for a sub man in Paris
Kinky Date ● 33 to 45 years ● 30km around France Paris
daisytulips
Let’s chat. I’m bored

Are you lonely and needing company? What do you think of spoiling someone…. What would that look like to you?
Munch Buddy ● 45 to 60 years ● 80km around USA Luttrell
baltimore70513
Cum here now.

“Think you’re slick? I like that. Men with a little attitude are my favorite—especially when they need reminding who’s really in control. I’ll let you talk, tease you right back, and enjoy that confident grin… right up until I decide it’s time for you to behave. Expect playful correction, soft laughs with firm energy, and a fun time where I handle you just the way you secretly want.”
Kinky Date ● 35 to 60 years ● 30km around USA Baltimore
tink29
looking for bbc

never had
always wanted
NSA ● 28 to 48 years ● 50km around USA Portland
51misronie
Exposure content sub wanted by femdom

Looking for subs who want to be useful and loyal but also love public exposure and being posted. I like publicly humiliating subs so if you think you're what I'm looking for dm
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 20 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Grand Rapids
kitchener286609
Couple looking for girl to join the fun

We’re a couple m 30 f 22
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 25km around Canada Kitchener
babygirlxoxo19
Bored and lonely

Looking for someone who will let me have my way with their asshole. I switch sub/dom so I’m down for whatever vibe as long as I get to play with some ass
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Staten Island
dimondale17468
Couple headed to Vu 1pm today

Hope to see you there
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Dimondale
stargirlKate
Looking for a submissive man

Who wants to be my valentine? 💘😘👅
( Looking for a really special good boy for mommy’s fun)
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around Canada Toronto
laurapat
Vacay Friend

I’m going to be in Madison for a few weeks, hoping to have some company 😜🫶🏻
Kinky Date ● 25 to 80 years ● 95km around USA Madison
vanillagoddes
For all the puppies out there,

I'm seeking for a sweet, devoted puppy whose world revolves around me. I adore affectionate, attentive losers, the kind who eagerly anticipate my every need. I value loyalty above all and want a pathetic puppy who’s ready to make me his absolute priority. Your adoration is my favorite thing! 👑
NSA ● 18 to 35 years ● 500km around Indonesia Bekasi Jaya
AlexisMarie
No games

Im a thick,redhead 48 yr ild.. And I'm looking for fun
No bs.. No games..
Just some adult hard-core fun
Kinky Date ● 35 to 56 years ● 255km around USA Wellsboro
newark56789
Bdsm fun discret

Let's have fun .meet up .need a break from reality
BDSM Play Partner ● 32 to 44 years ● 5km around USA Newark
Miss_Rose120
Any “Blessed” Men wanna play regularly ?

Married couple. Wife is QOS/HotWife looking for a single man, preferably BBC but depending on size, will consider BWC, to fulfill fantasies. Must be within 30 minutes of Newport TN area and DDF. If they can host and are okay with recording for OF etc. content.. That’s a plus!!
Fetish is a QOS Hotwife being satisfied and stretched multiple times a week, sending videos and pictures to her cuck husband then coming home “filled full”.

Also interested in bi men and women to play!
Kinky Date ● 21 to 45 years ● 35km around USA Newport
Tonya_mia
I’m new here

Just looking for something casual with no strings
NSA ● 18 to 32 years ● 25km around USA Portland
fairybaby1
IN NEED OF A EATER!

I’m away right now but i’ll be back shortly… HMU so we can plan a fun filled night ;) if goes both ways
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 300km around USA Saint George
taboocass
Just need new friends

I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older a lot of the old attachments I’ve had have kind of spread thin and honestly I don’t connect with the girls the same way. I want more girlfriends and to connect with more women and make closer friends and even open up more as I’ve always been nervous to!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Greensboro

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